take up the subject on the belief that, as we firmly believe in what determines our actions. We have seen how our minds can even arrive at self-sabotage just to remain consistent with what he believes in strongly.
Each of us has a lot of convictions. What we believe in continuously adjusts our behavior affects our choices, our results conditions.
For example, many men are convinced that " a relationship between man and woman can last long only if the man behaves in a cold and detached and gives the impression of never being completely in love with his girlfriend . The relationship that these men have with the partner is clearly influenced by their belief to try not to be too mushy, not to indulge more than they should, always surround themselves with an aura of mystery. So our behavior and our actions also depend on what we believe.
But belief is necessary to make other important details.
be convinced of something does not mean that what is objectively true . Remember that once were firmly convinced the existence of Santa Claus and you would have got bitten anyone would try to argue otherwise. If you do not remember, try to tell a child that Santa Claus does not exist and watch the reaction: none of us, even in childhood, would you accept to question their beliefs easily. Yet today you have changed your mind about Santa Claus (or at least we hope ...). So take note that what you believe today may not be true and that, on a certain topic, in a day, a month or a years may have an opinion totally different.
There limiting beliefs and empowering beliefs. Limiting beliefs are for us a hazard, adversely affect us and does not allow us to reach the goals we have set ourselves or to satisfy our desires. For example, there are people who would like to see the world in search of many cultural stimuli, but at the same time they believe that travel is dangerous. So on the one hand want to travel, but they have also a belief that limits them. This belief will affect their choices of course and therefore might decide not to travel or to opt for destinations less interesting culturally, but which are considered safer.
Conversely, there are beliefs that give us power : are those beliefs that allow us to field all the resources we have yet to achieve our goals . Obviously, the classification of limiting beliefs and empowering is entirely subjective.
Too many times we decide to make a substantial change in our lives or to set a target without checking whether our beliefs are compatible with the aim that we want to achieve . If you dream of a career in the company acquiring the title of captain, but at the same time we believe that it is not brought to a position of responsibility, clearly that we believe will be a limit.
is not very smart So navigate to a certain direction if we have one or more convictions rowing in the opposite direction: in the name of the "principle of consistency " which follows the mind (and to whom we talked in the past), may come to the situation with resources very limited and this could adversely affect our results.
The "blueprint for success" in the image attached to this post clearly says that report are our beliefs with the actions and the results we achieve.
When we have many strong convictions entering a very high potential: it is as if our mind is "opened" and accedesse to a number of useful resources which do not normally accessed. The potential resources to which we access make us act in a certain way and our actions produce results. The results, whether satisfactory or not, are having an influence on our beliefs, closing the circle.
Take the case of a person believed to be unattractive to women. He falls madly in love with a woman and decides to confess, while remaining firmly believe that it is not attractive. This conviction led him to limiting access to resources very useful in the end he wants to pursue: it is likely that the person accessing the mood of insecurity and anxiety, the fear of failure, the uncertainty and embarrassment they will act in a clumsy and not very incisive and his actions will produce results that are unlikely to be satisfactory, these results will reinforce the limiting belief, the person will only confirm what is already believed to know - " I was sure I would not be able to win, but unfortunately they are not attractive ... I can not help it, have done so ... "
In fact, a major cause of its failure was its belief that limiting the conditioned from the outset and that, because of its failure, the limit in the future even more evident.
People do not even remotely attempt to grapple with certain things just because they are convinced of not being able to have them: perhaps they have tried two or three times, already convinced that they do not succeed, this belief has produced mediocre results, and after a few attempts failed, they decided not to try again.
How many of us know a person of a certain age who claim to not be brought for the technology and also refuses to learn to use the remote control? Just ask that person how many times he decided to seriously learn to use a technological product. E 'might not have ever tried or, if attempted, it did so in a manner so little use (limited by the belief that "I can also try so I know you do not understand anything ... ") that in the end could not fail: it has strengthened his belief in limiting the extent that also refuses to take a few seconds to figure out how to make a phone call with the phone.
The cycle of success of course also works in reverse for empowering beliefs. Having beliefs that give us the power we have access to resources and appropriate actions that produce positive results that are satisfactory to strengthen our initial convictions.
And the more a belief is as strong as it is difficult to question it, even in the case of a failure.
It 's the case of a person believed to be a great lover who receives a rejection from a woman as his conviction is strong, much less quell'insuccesso will scratch his conviction and this will allow him to continue to access empowering resources whenever that will woo a woman. Of course, if they were to fail repeatedly, his conviction would lose power and would be replaced by a less empowering.
The fundamental concept that I want to transfer with this post is that to do anything in the best way, you must be convinced that they can do it . Our mind can not put the best available resources to follow a path if you have even the slightest doubt that things can go wrong.
In the next post will discover how to identify and change beliefs that limit us. Meanwhile, to understand what is rooted in a belief you can do a very simple experiment: call out the phrase " my name is (name) and I (xx) years . You'll like the way you express yourself and your tone of voice to communicate safety and conviction. Now you aloud other statements which you believe to be more or less convinced that comparing your expression with that obtained when you say your name, you will understand what is rooted that belief in you.
Each of us has a lot of convictions. What we believe in continuously adjusts our behavior affects our choices, our results conditions.
For example, many men are convinced that " a relationship between man and woman can last long only if the man behaves in a cold and detached and gives the impression of never being completely in love with his girlfriend . The relationship that these men have with the partner is clearly influenced by their belief to try not to be too mushy, not to indulge more than they should, always surround themselves with an aura of mystery. So our behavior and our actions also depend on what we believe.
But belief is necessary to make other important details.
be convinced of something does not mean that what is objectively true . Remember that once were firmly convinced the existence of Santa Claus and you would have got bitten anyone would try to argue otherwise. If you do not remember, try to tell a child that Santa Claus does not exist and watch the reaction: none of us, even in childhood, would you accept to question their beliefs easily. Yet today you have changed your mind about Santa Claus (or at least we hope ...). So take note that what you believe today may not be true and that, on a certain topic, in a day, a month or a years may have an opinion totally different.
There limiting beliefs and empowering beliefs. Limiting beliefs are for us a hazard, adversely affect us and does not allow us to reach the goals we have set ourselves or to satisfy our desires. For example, there are people who would like to see the world in search of many cultural stimuli, but at the same time they believe that travel is dangerous. So on the one hand want to travel, but they have also a belief that limits them. This belief will affect their choices of course and therefore might decide not to travel or to opt for destinations less interesting culturally, but which are considered safer.
Conversely, there are beliefs that give us power : are those beliefs that allow us to field all the resources we have yet to achieve our goals . Obviously, the classification of limiting beliefs and empowering is entirely subjective.
Too many times we decide to make a substantial change in our lives or to set a target without checking whether our beliefs are compatible with the aim that we want to achieve . If you dream of a career in the company acquiring the title of captain, but at the same time we believe that it is not brought to a position of responsibility, clearly that we believe will be a limit.
is not very smart So navigate to a certain direction if we have one or more convictions rowing in the opposite direction: in the name of the "principle of consistency " which follows the mind (and to whom we talked in the past), may come to the situation with resources very limited and this could adversely affect our results.
The "blueprint for success" in the image attached to this post clearly says that report are our beliefs with the actions and the results we achieve.
When we have many strong convictions entering a very high potential: it is as if our mind is "opened" and accedesse to a number of useful resources which do not normally accessed. The potential resources to which we access make us act in a certain way and our actions produce results. The results, whether satisfactory or not, are having an influence on our beliefs, closing the circle.
Take the case of a person believed to be unattractive to women. He falls madly in love with a woman and decides to confess, while remaining firmly believe that it is not attractive. This conviction led him to limiting access to resources very useful in the end he wants to pursue: it is likely that the person accessing the mood of insecurity and anxiety, the fear of failure, the uncertainty and embarrassment they will act in a clumsy and not very incisive and his actions will produce results that are unlikely to be satisfactory, these results will reinforce the limiting belief, the person will only confirm what is already believed to know - " I was sure I would not be able to win, but unfortunately they are not attractive ... I can not help it, have done so ... "
In fact, a major cause of its failure was its belief that limiting the conditioned from the outset and that, because of its failure, the limit in the future even more evident.
People do not even remotely attempt to grapple with certain things just because they are convinced of not being able to have them: perhaps they have tried two or three times, already convinced that they do not succeed, this belief has produced mediocre results, and after a few attempts failed, they decided not to try again.
How many of us know a person of a certain age who claim to not be brought for the technology and also refuses to learn to use the remote control? Just ask that person how many times he decided to seriously learn to use a technological product. E 'might not have ever tried or, if attempted, it did so in a manner so little use (limited by the belief that "I can also try so I know you do not understand anything ... ") that in the end could not fail: it has strengthened his belief in limiting the extent that also refuses to take a few seconds to figure out how to make a phone call with the phone.
The cycle of success of course also works in reverse for empowering beliefs. Having beliefs that give us the power we have access to resources and appropriate actions that produce positive results that are satisfactory to strengthen our initial convictions.
And the more a belief is as strong as it is difficult to question it, even in the case of a failure.
It 's the case of a person believed to be a great lover who receives a rejection from a woman as his conviction is strong, much less quell'insuccesso will scratch his conviction and this will allow him to continue to access empowering resources whenever that will woo a woman. Of course, if they were to fail repeatedly, his conviction would lose power and would be replaced by a less empowering.
The fundamental concept that I want to transfer with this post is that to do anything in the best way, you must be convinced that they can do it . Our mind can not put the best available resources to follow a path if you have even the slightest doubt that things can go wrong.
In the next post will discover how to identify and change beliefs that limit us. Meanwhile, to understand what is rooted in a belief you can do a very simple experiment: call out the phrase " my name is (name) and I (xx) years . You'll like the way you express yourself and your tone of voice to communicate safety and conviction. Now you aloud other statements which you believe to be more or less convinced that comparing your expression with that obtained when you say your name, you will understand what is rooted that belief in you.
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